By Cordell and Janice Vail
16 Nov 2003
A weekly email gospel message for the descendents of Ammon and Winona Vail
I can't see you, daddy!
I can't see you, daddy!
You have all heard the story about the little girl who took a lunch to her father who was digging a well. She threw the lunch down into the darkness of the well when he called out to her, but she could only hear his voice. She could not see him. Then he called up to her and asked her to jump into the well so she could eat lunch with him. Having faith in him she jumped into the black hole of the well into his waiting arms.
I have always loved that story. But there is another story that I love to read as well. Even though this story is not actually a part of our family history, it is a true story shared with me by a very dear friend of our family. Her name is Nina Ferguson. You may remember her husband Jim Ferguson. He was one of my dorm mates at BYU and later became the mayor of Provo. This is a true story about the faith Nina, as a 4 year old, had in her father. I thought it would be worth making a part of our family history so we could tell the story to our children. Here is the story in Nina's own words.
My father had just paid the last payment on our three-story farm house, and now it was ours, all ours. The date was December 31, 1959. As we all climbed into bed, the huge grandfather clock in the hallway rang majestically announcing to all that the night was nearly over. My Great-Grandmother had been spending Christmas vacation with the family and was sleeping downstairs in our parents bedroom. My father was sleeping with my younger brother upstairs and my mother was sleeping on the couch in the downstairs living room.
My sister’s cries woke me with a start. “Nina, hurry, we have to go wake up Dad. There’s fog in the house and I think Mom got kicked by one of the goats.” My sister had been awakened by my mother’s voice, calling for my father. She grabbed my hand and we found our way into the next bedroom, where my father and brother were sleeping. My sister woke up my dad and explained to him what she thought was going on. He explained to us that the smoke wasn't fog and led the three of us toward the staircase. “The house is on fire,” he calmly explained, and I want you kids to do exactly as I ask, without any questions as to why.” As my bare feet touched the warming floor, I felt fear begin to creep through me. Reaching the staircase, my father tucked my older sister under one arm, and my younger brother under the other. He turned to me, and with a very serious look on his face said “Nina, stay where you are and don't move, not even an inch”. I later found out that I was standing right above where the fire started.
I watched them disappear down the staircase and sadly realized I was being left alone. I wanted to run after them, but the thought vanished as quickly as it came. I looked at the flames below and knew that I was safer where I was than in the burning flames below. Panic began to eat at my side like hungry mice eating cheese. I noticed that the floor below me was getting hotter and hotter with each passing second. A thousand and one thoughts raced through my head as I stood there. “Why did Dad leave me?” I wondered. “Why didn't he leave Nola?” “She’s the oldest; she’s already lived longer than I have”. “And why did he take Leslie?” “He’s a boy, girls should come before boys”. “Maybe Dad just wanted his oldest boy and oldest girl saved” “Maybe he just loves them more than me.” “Maybe if I close my eyes real tight, when I open them it will all have just been a bad dream and I will be back safe in my bed”. The heat under my feet brought me back to reality. I looked down and realized my feet had turned bright red. I began to hop from one foot to the other. It felt as if the floor below me was going to start on fire. I looked around for a safer place to wait for my dad. About two feet away, I saw what looked like a very safe place to stand. I started to move, but then my fathers words rang out in my mind. “Stay where you are, don't move, not even an inch”. I had my answer and I stood there patiently waiting. Suddenly I heard an earth shaking sound... the place next to me, where I had, not two minutes earlier debated moving to, fell aimlessly into the blazing fire below. Needles to say, never had I been so happy that I had minded my father.
“Nina, are you there?” “Yes”, I answered. It was my father. I could not see him but I could hear his voice. “The steps are all burned out and I can't make it up to get you.” “Your going to have to jump down to me.” I looked down through the burning blaze, but I could not see my father. “I can't see you, daddy” I said. My father’s strong voice came back, “That’s alright, I can see you.” I stood there looking at the hot blazing flames flashing between me and my father and thought. “How can I jump into these flames? I'll die for sure.” Then I remembered how my fathers words had saved me just moments before... I turned and jumped into the flames.
I felt my father’s hands enclose my body like a glove. His firm grip carried me down the burning staircase and away from the burning flames that surrounded me. How could I have ever doubted my father’s love for me? I was quickly deposited safely in the back seat of our car where my mother, wrapped in a blanket, my older sister and younger brother waited. As we backed out of the driveway I looked back at the house. In the kitchen window I saw my mothers prized begonias. I stared in amazement as their clay pots burst into a million pieces.
The fire had started when my mother was putting fuel in the pot-bellied stove that heated our home. The flames leaped out and caught my mothers’s nightgown on fire. She ran outside and rolled in the snow to put the flames out. It was from there that she called for my father and woke my sister. My mother had 67% of her body burned in second and third degree burns and remained in the hospital for over a year fighting for her life. She is alive today. My father had his face and hands burned almost to the bones when he returned for me. He has completely recovered. My one month old baby brother was taken out by my visiting Great-Grandmother who waited in the cold with him that wintery night for help.
Our home burned to the ground before the fire department arrived. My father had just canceled the home owners policy on our home that day. The new policy was to go into effect the next day, January 1st, but because it was a holiday, the policy was not effective until January 2nd. During that small frame of time we lost our home and everything we owned.
Nights are hard on us. Sometimes I'll wake up at 3:00 in the morning and find my mother up reading a book, my father up typing and my brother and sister lying awake in their beds, just staring off into the distance. Our thoughts of that night so long ago will never leave us. We can't help but remember the events that happened so quickly, yet take so long to tell.
Yes, for some, New Year's eve is a time of joy, smiles and new beginnings. For my family it truly was a new beginning. It’s not just about living, it’s about life! The events of the little 4 years old girl are as real to me today as they were that night in 1959. Time has healed the scars and we have rebuilt our home and replaced the things we lost. We look back on that night so many years ago as only a memory, a very real New Year’s memory.
NOTE: Nothing in any of these Sunday Sermons is intended to represent the official doctrines of the Church Of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. They are strictly instructions and teachings from Cordell and Janice Vail to their family.
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